Wednesday, October 23, 2013

who packs your parachute???

Charles Plumb was a US Navy jet pilot in Vietnam. After 75 combat missions, his plane was destroyed by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb ejected and parachuted into enemy hands. He was captured and spent 6 years in a communist Vietnamese prison. He survived the ordeal and now lectures on lessons learned from that experience!

One day, when Plumb and his wife were sitting in a restaurant, a man at another table came up and said, ' You're Plumb! You flew jet fighters in Vietnam from the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down! 'How in the world did you know that?' asked Plumb. 'I packed your parachute,' the man replied. Plumb gasped in surprise and gratitude. The man pumped his hand and said, 'I guess it worked!' Plumb assured him, 'It sure did. If your chute hadn't worked, I wouldn't be here today.'

Plumb couldn't sleep that night, thinking about that man. Plumb says, 'I kept wondering what he had looked like in a Navy uniform: a white hat; a bib in the back; and bell-bottom trousers. I wonder how many times I might have seen him and not even said 'Good morning, how are you?' or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor.'

Plumb thought of the many hours the sailor had spent at a long wooden table in the bowels of the ship, carefully weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of each chute, holding in his hands each time the fate of someone he didn't know.

Now, Plumb asks his audience, 'Who's packing your parachute?' Everyone has someone who provides what they need to make it through the day. He also points out that he needed many kinds of parachutes when his plane was shot down over enemy territory - he needed his physical parachute, his mental parachute, his emotional parachute, and his spiritual parachute. He called on all these supports before reaching safety.

Sometimes in the daily challenges that life gives us, we miss what is really important. We may fail to say hello, please, or thank you, congratulate someone on something wonderful that has happened to them, give a compliment, or just do something nice for no reason. As you go through this week, this month, this year, recognise people who pack your parachutes.


~Author Unknown

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

The Six Enemies of Greatness (and Happiness)


Source: Jassica Hagy, Article Published in forbes with the same title,

The Six Enemies of Greatness (and Happiness)
These six factors can erode the grandest of plans and the noblest of intentions. They can turn visionaries into paper-pushers and wide-eyed dreamers into shivering, weeping balls of regret. Beware!

 1) Availability
We often settle for what’s available, and what’s available isn’t always great. “Because it was there,” is an okay reason to climb a mountain, but not a very good reason to take a job or a free sample at the supermarket
2) Ignorance
If we don’t know how to make something great, we simply won’t. If we don’t know that greatness is possible, we won’t bother attempting it. All too often, we literally do not know any better than good enough.

 3) Committees
Nothing destroys a good idea faster than a mandatory consensus. The lowest common denominator is never a high standard.

 4) Comfort
Why pursue greatness when you’ve already got 324 channels and a recliner? Pass the dip and forget about your grand designs.

5) Momentum
If you’ve been doing what you’re doing for years and it’s not-so-great, you are in a rut. Many people refer to these ruts as careers.

6) Passivity
There’s a difference between being agreeable and agreeing to everything. Trust the little internal voice that tells you, “this is a bad idea.”




Tuesday, August 6, 2013

O Re Manwa Tu To Bawra Hai
Tu Hi Jaane Tu Kya Sochta Hai
Tu Hi Jaane Tu Kya Sochta Hai
Baware

Kyun Dikhaye Sapne Tu Sote Jaagte
Jo Barsein Sapne Boond Boond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond
Jo Barsein Sapne Boond Boond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond

Kaise Main Chaloon
Dekh Na Sakoon
Anjaane Raaste

Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara


Sun Rahi Hoon Sudhbudh Kho Ke
Koi Main Kahani
Puri Kahani Hai Kya Kisi Hai Pata
Main To Kisiki Ho Ke Yeh Bhi Na Jaani
Ruth Hai Yeh Do Pal Ki Ya Rahegi Sada
Kise Hai Pata
Kise Hai Pata


Jo Barsein Sapne Boond Boond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond
Jo Barsein Sapne Boond Boond
Nainon Ko Moond Moond

Kaise Main Chaloon
Dekh Na Sakoon
Anjaane Raaste

Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara Iktara
Goonja Sa Hai Koi Ektara

(Source: Lyricmasti.com)

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

The day Sir MV blackmailed DVG !

The real greatness of a city is measured not only by its monuments, institutions and infrastructure, but also by the greatness of the people who have been nurtured on its soil, and who, in turn, have contributed to its growth and identity.

D.V. Gundappa, born in 1889, was a matriculate who started working as a journalist at the age of 16. Two years later, he was publishing his own newspaper. He went on to become a titan of Kannada literature, writing on subjects that covered philosophy and literature, sociology and history.
Those of us who consider citizens' initiatives a modern day phenomenon, should know that DVG was a passionate activist, ever ready to give his time for a worthy cause. He was the moving spirit behind the Popular Education League and the Social Service League. In 1945, he set up the Gokhale Institute of Public Affairs, a forum intended to awaken national consciousness among people. He was also the Founder-Editor of the Institute's journal, Public Affairs.


It so happened that one of DVG's closest friends was the famous engineer-statesman, Sir M. Visvesvaraya (Dewan of Mysore between 1912-1918). They met often and, over filter coffee and vadais, would have long, intense discussions. Most of their conversations covered matters relating to the state and its development—subjects close to both their hearts.
Sir MV sensed that although DVG contributed generously of himself to the community, on a personal level, his friend lived in near-penury. Wanting to help, Sir MV pointed out that their discussions were invaluable to him in the discharge of his professional duties as Dewan. He would, therefore, like to make DVG's contribution official by appointing him Consultant to the Kingdom of Mysore.
DVG refused to consider the idea. "My vritti dharma (vocation) is writing and journalism. I cannot take money for conversations with a friend", he said. Unable to persuade him otherwise, Sir MV agreed to go along with DVG's decision—on condition that they discussed only personal matters henceforth. A sort of blackmail, so to speak!
For a man of DVG's wide-ranging interests, this was as hard a punishment as could be imposed. And as Sir MV expected, DVG capitulated after a few meetings and reluctantly agreed to be a Consultant. The Mysore Treasury issued him generous cheques at regular intervals. Sir MV felt pleased that his friend was enjoying a few justly earned rewards.
Time passed. DVG died in 1975, about fifty years after the incident which we have just recounted. Amongst his few possessions was a steel trunk. When family members opened it, they were shocked to see a stack of cheques of the face value of Rs 1200, Rs 900, Rs 1400… amounts that would have added up to the equivalent of several lakhs in 1975.
All the cheques were issued by the Mysore Treasury, paid to DVG for his services as Consultant. Not a single cheque had been cashed. Despite the fact that they came at periods when he had suffered dire monetary difficulties.


Sometimes the greatness of a man can be measured not so much by what he does, as by what he doesn't do
.

Source: From facebook shared post.

Sunday, June 16, 2013

happiness

Apne gham ki numaish na kar,
Apne nasiib ki azmaish na kar,
Jo tera hai tere paas khud ayega, har roz use paane ki khwaish na kar,
Taqdir badal jayegi apne aapm hi ae dost,
Muskurana seek le, wajah ki talaash na kar.
-          Guru Granth Sahib

At times, it is important to step back, forget and attain a peaceful state of mind. Just like a disturbed lake cannot show what is there in its depths, a disturbed mind cannot reveal the latent potential within us.   Life is all about making the world a better place to live. In the process, it would not make sense to spoil the self life with grief and suffering.  Don’t built a magnificent tomb, Built a peaceful palace.  Enjoy the present as it is. Don’t force things to happen, just allow them to happen

ಜೀವ ಜಡರೂಪ ಪ್ರಪಂಚವನದಾವುದೋ 
ಆವರಿಸಿಕೊಂಡು ಮೊಳನೆರೆದುಮಿಹುದಂತೆ 
ಭಾವಕೊಳಪಡದಂತೆ ಅಳತೆಗಳವಡದಂತೆ 
ಆ ವಿಶೇಷಕೆ ಮಣಿಯೋ - ಮಂಕುತಿಮ್ಮ 


Thursday, May 23, 2013

Silence

It takes a year to learn to talk....


But it takes a life time to learn and understand Silence.



Thursday, April 11, 2013

Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya


Der lagi lekin
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya
Jaise bhi ho'n din
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya
Ab maine....
Yeh jaana hai, khushi hai kya, gham kya..
Dono hi, do pal ki hai ruttein
Na yeh thehre na ruke
Zindagi do rangon se bane
Ab roothe, ab maane
Yehi toh hai, yehi toh hai, yahaan

Der lagi lekin
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya
Aansuo'n ke bin
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya
Ab maine...
Yeh jaana hai kise kahoon apna
Hai koi, jo yeh mujh se keh gaya
Yeh kahaan tu reh gaya
Zindagi toh hai jaise kaarvan
Tu hai tanha kab yahaan
Sabhi toh hai, sabhi toh hai yahaan

Koi sunaaye joh hasti muskurati kahani
Kehta hai dil, main bhi sunu
Aansu bhi moti ho jo kisi ke nishani
Kehta hai dil, main bhi chunu
Baahein dil ki ho baahon mein chalta
Chalun yunhi raahon mein
Bus yunhi, ab yahaan, kab wahaan

Der lagi lekin
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya
Aansuon ke bin
Maine ab hai jeena seekh liya

Hai koi, jo yeh mujhse keh gaya
Yeh kahaan tu reh gaya
Zindagi, toh hai jaise kaarvan
Tu hai tanha kab yahaan
Sabhi toh hai, sabhi toh hai yahaan
(sabhi toh hai, sabhi toh hai yahaan)

Source: google, Zindagi na milegi dubara...

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Be at peace



Life is all about being at peace. There would be situations where your most loved person would leave you alone, or your own close relatives put their interest first and put you in discomfort position, or your job may be sucking at times ( well if it sucks always then it is not what you are supposed to be doing..) or even everything might be going as you wish... but whatever it is the art of life is being at peace with the self.
For me that is the whole essence of “Karmanye Vadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachana,
Ma Karma Phala Hetur Bhurmatey Sangostva Akarman.” 

Know what is the best and right full way to do and then just do it. And be indifferent to result. Condition yourself to accept the result as it is based on knowledge and not based on blind belief that god will do everything meaning, knowing completely, what you are doing. With knowledge of the consequences of your action, overcome the fear of failure, fear of loss and fear of opinion of others.
Just accept the things as it is and be at peace.

Being at peace and being content are completely two different concepts. Being at peace is not worrying about the result, being content is about not working towards achieving more. Being at peace is doing everything that is possible with the intention of achieving something at being undisturbed by the result, good or bad.

It is the same thing when D.V.G said
 "Baduku Jataka Bandi Vidhi Adara Saheba
Kudure Neen, avanu peldante payanigaru.
Maduvego Masanako Hogenda Kadegodu.
Padakusiye Nelavihudu Mankutimma."  

It is the same thing when Brhadaranyaka Upanishad  says,  
“Om Asato Maa Sad-Gamaya |
Tamaso Maa Jyotir-Gamaya |
Mrtyor-Maa Amrtam Gamaya |
Om Shaantih Shaantih Shaantih ||." 

Let the almighty lead us in right path, grant us knowledge  and provide amrutatava to overcome the fear. Let there be peace in our life.

When Life is at peace, it would be beautiful.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

baduku

ಬದುಕಿನ ಅರ್ಥ ಏನು ಅಂತ ಒಂದು ಮುಸ್ಸಂಜೆ ಕೃಷ್ಣನನ್ನು ಅರ್ಜುನ ಕೇಳುತ್ತಾನೆ. ಕೃಷ್ಣ ಏನು ಹೇಳದೆ, ದೂರದಲ್ಲಿ ಹಾರುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಹಕ್ಕಿಯನ್ನು ತೋರಿಸಿ ಹೊಡೆದುರುಳಿಸಲು ಹೆಲುಥ್ತನೆ. ಅರ್ಜುನ ಕ್ಷಣ ಮಾತ್ರದಲ್ಲಿ ಹೊದೆದುರುಲಿಸುತ್ತನೆ. 
ಕೃಷ್ಣ ಹೇಳುತ್ತಾನೆ: ಆ ಹಕ್ಕಿಯ ಸಾವಿಗೆ ಕಾರಣವಾದದ್ದು ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ. ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಆಕಾಶದಲ್ಲಿ ನಿರುಳ್ಳಮವಾಗಿ ಹಾರುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಅದಕ್ಕೆ ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆಯಾಗಲಿ, ನನ್ನ ಉತ್ತರವಾಗಲಿ, ನಿನ್ನ ಕ್ರಿಯೆಯಾಗಲಿ ಗೊತ್ತಿಲ್ಲ. ಹೀಗಾಗಿ ಅದರ ಸಾವು ಅನಯಸ. ಒಂದು ವೇಳೆ ನಮ್ಮ ಸಂಬಾಷಣೆಯನ್ನು ಅದು ಕೇಳಿಸಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದರೆ ಆತಂಕ, ಭಯ ಮತ್ತು ತಪ್ಪಿಸಿ ಕೊಳ್ಳುವ ಹಪಾಹಪಿಗೆ ಸಿಲುಕುತ್ತಿತು. 

ನಾವು ಅಷ್ಟೇ, ಹಾರುತ್ತಿರಬೇಕು. ಬಾಣ ಬಂದು ಬೀಳಿಸುವ ತನಕ ಆಕಾಶ ನಮ್ಮದು.   

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Fullness of life


‎"Go not to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,

First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love...

                  Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,

                  First remove the darkness of sin from your heart...

Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,

First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen...

                  Go not to the temple to pray on bended knees,

                  First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden...

Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,

First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you."

- Rabindranath Tagore, poet.